I am sure we all have at least one of these folks. You know the type that post generic general rants or statements directed at the ether instead of at the individual they have issue with. They never actually talk about anyone in particular but they sure are angry about it. Here is a clue there Sparky get off Facebook and go deal with your problems!
Unfortunately this is an indicator to a much larger problem. Remember when your parents confronted you with a very uncomfortable topic or situation? Recall how inside you felt angry, embarrassed, frightened, concerned, and disconnected? That was because they were right and your ego would not allow you to admit that. Face it people as a human being you are wrong at a minimum of 50% of the time. Once you come to terms with that harsh reality things become a good deal easier.
The second mistake we make is assuming someone else is right or lucky more than we are. No they are not they are simply better at keeping their dirty laundry in the clothes hamper than you are. Don't be jealous of other folks who seem to have it easier than you do. They are having huge problems with something you have already dealt with and have control of.
Basically that square peg you have been whacking with a hammer all along still doesn't fit in that round hole. Lets try talking to people instead of trying to passive aggressively snipe them or flame them on a public forum hmmmmm?
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